Parents Introduction To Youth Hockey
This page is being prepared in association with USA Hockey and CCYHA to assist parents in becoming more familiar with the sport of hockey and its organization and structure at the grassroots level. Keep in mind that, above all, the motivating factor for most children who enter an organized youth sports program is their desire to have fun. This is particularly true with young children, many of whom are newcomers to the sports scene.
In The Stands
Parents can take the fun out of hockey by continually yelling or screaming from the stands. Parents should enjoy the game and applaud good plays. The stands are not for coaching, kids often mirror the actions of their parents, if they see mom or dad losing their cool, they will probably do the same thing.
Car And Home
Some parents may not only spoil the fun at the ice rink, but also in the car. The car is not the perfect place for instruction. Trying to keep things in perspective is key in this situation. There is more to life than hockey, and the car and home are not places to coach. Parents are responsible for supporting and respecting the coach's decisions and abilities. It is unfair to put children in a position of having to decide who to listen to - their parents or their coach.
At Practice
Parents should remember that if a child wants to improve, he/she has to practice - not just play. Even if a child is not the "star" player for a team, practice stresses the importance of teamwork, establishing goals, discipline and learning to control your emotions, all of which are important lessons children can use both in and away from sports.
At The Rink
Hockey parents can help create a fun environment by making certain their children are wearing properly fitted equipment. Parents also need to stress fair play and risk management to help eliminate injuries.
Support Your Child
There are many benefits that are derived from playing youth hockey. Boys and girls learn good sportsmanship and self-discipline. They learn to work together, how to sacrifice for the good of the team, how to enjoy winning and how to handle defeat. In the process, they also learn important lessons about physical fitness and personal health.
The degree to which your child benefits from his or her youth hockey experience is as much your responsibility as it is theirs. In order for your child to get the most out of a youth hockey program, it is important for you to show support and offer encouragement while maintaining a genuine interest in the team.
Always Be Positive
Parents serve as role models for their children, who often look to adults for advise, direction, and approval. Never lose sight of the fact that you are a role model and strive to be positive. As a parent, one of the most important things you can do is show good sportsmanship and all times to coaches, referees, opponents, and teammates. Be careful not to impose your own standards or objectives.
Let The Coach Coach
Avoid placing an exaggerated emphasis on winning. The most important aspect of your child's youth hockey experience is for them to have fun while developing physical and emotional skills that will serve them in life. A healthy, risk-free environment that emphasizes the importance of fair play, sportsmanship, teamwork and, most importantly, fun will be invaluable for your child as ha or she continues to develop a positive self image.
Positive Reinforcement
The best way to help children achieve goals and reduce their natural fear of failure if through positive reinforcement. After all, no one feels good about making mistakes. If your child does make a mistake - and they will (remember, they're just kids) - keep in mind that mistakes are an important part of the overall learning process. Strive to be supportive and point out the things they do well. Make sure your child knows that, regardless of the outcome, he or she is a winner. |